My kids have had extreme contrast with their father. I came to the realization that the ONLY thing I could do was to get happy myself. And to see them in the light of that also, happy and carefree as I knew one day they would be. My younger daughter has decided to set herself free ~ not seeing her dad anymore. The elder one is finding her way.
There is nothing you need to DO for your daughter. Just be joyful and she will find her own way to joy.
That was a delicious aha for me too. I was driving with my niece over the weekend and I noticed her being a little negative, I soothed her with positive thoughts and words but, I felt a little upset that there were people in her life who were aleady filling her little mind with such thinking and that she was losing that lovely natural inclination to go downstream, until I read you post and realised that that was downstream for her. She had actually moved from fear to anger. I got it and that is so nice. This is a major breakthrough for me in how I present Abe to others from now on. It is so much easier to catch other people being Abers when I see them actually moving downstream even though it may look upstream to me.
I get upset with people who are seeking my help sometimes when I notice that they are not doing what I want them to. I realise now that in many ways they are doing what is downstream for them even though it may not look that way to me. This is such a wonderful platform from which to soothe another into alignment. Recognising that they are already doing such a wonderful job and beckoning them towards even better feeling thoughts. So much better than noticing them doing something that I think is 'wrong'